Traditional Jewish gifts may be given at a bat mitzvah.
A bat mitzvah is a milestone occasion in a 12-year-old Jewish girl's life. The important event recognizes that she is now mature enough to take responsibility for her own religious welfare. It is common practice for friends and family to offer gifts at the bat mitzvah party, after the religious ceremony has taken place.
Monetary Gifts
Although it may seem impersonal to some, the gift of money is one of the most common gifts given to a girl at her bat mitzvah. However, you should follow certain etiquette to remain respectful. It is Jewish tradition for monetary gifts to be given in multiples of 18, as the number is representative of "life" in Jewish culture. Offer a gift of $18, $36 or $54, for example, to stay conform with tradition. Alternatively, purchase a savings bond in multiples of 18 to help her during college instead.
Religious Books
Purchase a book with religious significance to serve as a reminder of her bat mitzvah. A prayer book, biography about a famous Jewish person or Torah study guide are all acceptable gifts. Write a handwritten note to the recipient in the sleeve of the book wishing her well for a personal touch. In addition, bookmark any pages that you feel are particular poignant or useful. Not only can she appreciate the gift in the short-term, but she can also refer to it as she goes through life.
Traditional Jewish Gifts
There are a whole host of traditional Jewish items that make suitable bat mitzvah gifts. A necklace that features a Star of David can be worn on a daily basis to remind her of the importance of her faith. Alternatively, purchase a set of Shabbat candlesticks that she can light to lead a blessing at the next Jewish holiday. Tallith clips, which are used to keep her prayer shawl in position, also make a thoughtful gift.
Religious Alternatives
Bat mitzvah gifts do not have to hold religious significance, in fact. Many gifts presented at bat mitzvah's today are similar to those she may receive for a birthday celebration. Concert tickets, an iPod, clothes or gift certificates are all age-appropriate gifts to give her for her bat mitzvah. If she has a particular hobby such as playing the piano, crafts or sports, select a gift that matches her wider-interests instead.
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